My husband carries two phone cards. He says he wants to have them to use in case his cell phone isn't working

He was out ot town and I mistakenly got a receipt from a hotel he was at with five phone calls on it, using his calling cards. Of couse, there is no way to discover the numbers he called! He said he was calling me but it never showed up on my phone.

My husband carries two phone cards. He says he wants to have them to use in case his cell phone isn't working
Oh my dear, he is SOOOOOO Busted! I will tell you exactly how to get the information you want...PAY ATTENTION CHEATERS I am letting the cat out of the bag!!!!!





He is lying, of course. What, you wouldn't accept a collect call???? LOL...ROFLMFAO!!!! Please tell him to come up with something better than that. Bad enough he cheats on you, now he is insulting your intelligence. He should leave you with a little dignity if nothing else. By the way, he IS cheating, the phone cards were the clue...the lie is the proof.





Here is how you eliminate the need for phone cards. You can get a 1-800 number for your home phone, it costs you little or nothing unless he calls you, then you pay something like 10 cents a minute for the incoming call. He can call from anywhere, no cost. He can call you and you can call him back wherever he is. Works great, we have it on our phone for the same reason your husband used as a lame excuse, and for the kids to call us.





About the phone cards, sorry, but there IS INDEED a way to know exactly who he called and for how long. And you can do it from right where you are sitting reading this. Get the card and go to their website (they all have a website) you will be prompted to enter your PIN number (it is on the card) and then you can go to "call history" also to purchase history (if he has been re-filling them online) and you can see when he "re-filled" the cards, when he made calls, how long and the number dialed. Hehehehehe.





I know this because I met my wife while working in Ukraine and had to return to the US before her visa was approved and we were apart for 6 months during our engagement. ( I DID visit her 4 times) I used these cards to call her everyday and I bought one card in the store, then "re-filled" it online. On the website I could get an entire printout of all calls, and the dates and amounts I spent buying these cards and used it to show the USCIS that I had an ongoing relationship with my wife (then fiancee) in order to qualify for the fiancee visa. It was good enough for the government! We still use them to call friends and family in Ukraine...much cheaper by the way!





All you need is the card and the PIN number. It does not matter if he bought it online or in a store. If he has never been to the website (maybe he is buying cards one-by-one at the gas station) you can still get the info. You will just have to sign-up for an "account" first. Just your name and email and make a password, very simple. The site will give you the details on that PIN.





I had established "PIN-less" dialing for my normally used home and cell phones and the site also showed which phones were set up for this. Wouldn't THAT be a kick in the pants??? Maybe he set up your home phone to speed dial his girlfriend using this card!!! The "speed dial" is set up with the phone card, you cannot tell on your home phone.





Edit...while I agree with another answerer that having a phone card does not mean you are cheating, combine that with lying and VOILA!!!! I have a phone card for cheap calls to Europe, BUT I don't lie and say it is for home and the calls were to my wife AND she knows exactly how to get my call history if she wanted, we both share the account (by the way, there is no need for the "card" itself) I established the account, we re-fill it online and can use it from any phone anywhere, anytime. If our son, who goes to a university in Russia, wants to speak to us he calls one of our phones and we call him back. So there ARE legitimate reasons for married people to have them, but there is no need to LIE about it!!!!!!!!
Reply:He is definitely hiding something from you! My ex use to do the same thing and when I finally got to the truth, he was using the phone cards to avoid his lovers # appearing on the bill. No offense, but your guy must really think you are dumb. You need to catch him in the act!!! Depending on which cell phone carrier you have, you should be able to call them up (if you are an authorized user on the account) and request a trace be put on his phone. Tell them that you believe that a co-worker is using the cell without permission, but cannot catch them. Your cell must be kept in an area of your workplace due to company policies, but you must take it in with you for emergency purposes. Understand what I am getting at?


I hope this helps you, be strong and good luck!
Reply:Yeah...sure.





If he's calling you at home...then why is it necessary to use a phone card?





Unless you're making telephone calls that you have no wish to have them show up on the bill. I'd tend to think that's the case and not that line of crap he fed you.





Man...can't you guys come up with anything more plausable then that?
Reply:say this: "it's painfully obvious that you have other interests. denying is just making you look stupid and don't insult my intelligence. I'm going to let you pursue your other interest. no more lies, you'll be free to do what you want. you'll receive papers from my attorney shortly"





and leave it at that.





my bet is that your hubby is gonna be on his knees for one more chance.





one thing tho, if you're gonna bluff, you have to be ready to follow through. but you should be divorcing his cheating, lying @ss regardless.
Reply:I'm married, I have calling cards, I'm not cheating. Is there any other indications that make you think he is cheating? Something your not mentioning. Because just having calling cards isn't going to cut it.
Reply:So whats your question. Your husband is at least talking to someone he doesnt want you know about and he is most likely cheating on you. Hire a PI and have him followed.
Reply:Girl he wasn't calling you... Why does he need to carry 2 phone cards... why wouldn't his cell phone be working? please. he's lying
Reply:he was calling the escort agency
Reply:WRONG! He was not calling you. As long as he pays his bill, there is no reason to use a calling card.
Reply:He is lying to you. If he did nothing wrong, why doesn't he tell you who he called for real?
Reply:Dont be stupid

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